You Are Enough
As I’ve said before, I’ve always been one to watch what goes on around me. How people handle life lemons when they come flying at them.
And since I’m always on the lookout for topic material for this blog, I find things pop out at me even more. Like an old jack in the box kids toy.
I had a jack in the box moment the other day. I was scrolling through t.v. shows and came across one I used to watch about people hoarding. Holy hell and hallejulah….I’m thinking…what has gone on in this person’s life to end up like this??
After watching a few shows I found common denominators, trauma and loss. I’m going to address loss, as one comment the woman said really bothered me.
She had figured out her hoarding stuff started after her husband left her.
She said…”If my husband didn’t want me, then who would?!”
I had an oh my gawd, head flinging back in my chair, hands on my head moment.
Holy hell. The fact that women tie their own worth to their husband, astounds and infuriates me.
Yet I understand it likely goes back to her childhood days, she may never have believed she had worth on her own….very sad. Well newsflash for you lady…You Do!!
So to fill the space in her heart after the loss of her husband, she accumulated stuff. Buying things gave her a dose of feel good, so she kept doing it.
The life lemon of divorce is a tough one. So if anyone reading this is going through it…listen up!
YOU WERE ALWAYS ENOUGH!! You are worthy of good things in your life. You deserve better than what you are living right now. If your husband is leaving you, then tell him…”Don’t let the door smack you in the ass on your way out!!”
Change your way of thinking. It’s the whole one door closes, another opens kind of thing.
You just have to keep walking down the hall until you find the door that opens for you!
I myself have had to try a few doors until I found what worked for me…lol
Just because one guy doesn’t want you, doesn’t mean no one will. Say that over and over to yourself until it sinks in.
Take that life lemon and squash it flat, because you are enough.
Instead of filling her home with stuff, this woman should have filled her head with good thoughts about herself!
Once you know better you do better. And yes…I know it’s not an easy thing to do.
But if you give your power of thinking over to someone else, they win.
You are the winner when you carry on and believe in yourself!
Life Experience Wisdom
*Life lemons happen, adjust your thinking and believe in yourself. You are enough!
*Reach out for help from family, friends or your doctor if need be, to get yourself back on track.
*Tell yourself daily…”I don’t tie my worth to anyone else. I am Me…I am Enough!!
Thanks for visiting, cheers til next time!
Grace
My Motto
When life throws baseball size lemons at you, that smack you upside the head, stomp on those damn things and make yourself a cocktail!